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Football is never just 22 players

Köniz 40+

Right before the Seniors 40+ cup final kicked off, I pulled my midfielder teammate aside. “When I dribble past the defender on the left wing,” I told him, “get to the penalty spot. I’ll find you, and you’ll score.”

It’s almost impossible to believe that’s exactly what happened. And there’s a video to prove it. But that’s just one of the many stories that made our Cup journey so extraordinary.

A small note: I’m not the star of this team. Even though people tend to assume that being Brazilian is enough to make me one.

No. I’m one among the others. I bring my skills and my weaknesses to every game, and I try to give everything I have, every time I step on the pitch. Sometimes that’s more than enough. Sometimes I leave frustrated, knowing I could have done better.

But to understand how we got to that final, I need to go back one game. The semifinal. The night I almost didn’t play at all.

Our Cup campaign had gone smoothly until the football gods arranged for us to face our biggest rival in the semifinal: Pristina.

Those are always difficult games. They are strong, physical, and hard to beat. I usually leave those matches with bruises or scars.

This time, there was a complication. My wife was traveling to Africa the week of the game. I was alone with my three kids. The game was at night.

Until the last minute, I didn’t know what to do. Should I call the coach and say I couldn’t play? How do you choose between the team counting on you and the children asleep upstairs?

I talked to my neighbors. We set up a baby monitor camera so they could keep an eye on the kids if anyone woke up, which almost never happens. But still.

I could only make it for the second half.

And that is what I did.

When I arrived at the pitch, the situation was bad. Pristina was leading 2×0, a score that felt near-impossible to flip. The energy was low. The team couldn’t find a way to turn it around.

Then I entered. Along with another fresh substitute, our goal was simple: change the energy. Not just score a goal. Change the entire feeling of the game.

A cross. I scored. 1×2.

Another cross. I anticipate. The Pristina goalkeeper gave away a penalty. Our defender scored. 2×2.

In twenty minutes, we had changed the story. We won on penalties and reached the final.

Football, like life, is full of stories, surprises, and the kind of support that wraps around you without you always noticing it. We watch twenty-two players on the pitch, but behind each of them there are people who help, encourage, and show up.

And then there is the personal decision. The individual commitment that, when it joins with others, becomes something larger. Something that transforms a group of players into a proper team. Built on trust. On human bonds.

When a team reaches that place, with that energy, it becomes something close to unbeatable.

In this Cup, we got there.